------------------------------------------------------------<BR>Like that game you played..it was bad because you quit moving forward...BTW, din;t minimize the effect of your (YES) inappropriate online relationship with another woman...soon to be classified as an IA (Internet Affair)...it is just like an EA, and still a no-no...quit trying to push it away simply because there was no physical union...doesn't matter one bit.<BR>------------------------------------------------------------<P>I think you are over sizing this, maybe I minimized it a bit much. But what I stated was the truth, yes I did have a crush, no the other person did not know that. Yes it was wrong for me to develope the crush I had, but all we never went beyond just being friends, nor did I try to pursue anything beyond that.<P>And no offence, and no offence taken by me, but I am agnostic. Myself I'm not sure if there is anything out there, I won't say there is or there isn't, but either way I don't know what it is.<P>I think I've finally ended my pursuit especially after hearing the words that came out of my sons mouth on our way home from her house. I think I've let her push me around for way to long, and had even dismissed (admittedly few and far between that I have seen) times she has hit my oldest son thinking that the short talk I had with her each time would make her stop doing that. It hasn't stopped and now my biggest problem is making sure she doesn't do it again.<BR>

Oops<p>[This message has been edited by FDH-WS (edited August 09, 2001).]

Yes actually I'll be moving into the River Oaks area next week. I just hope she doesn't find this site because right now everything is kinda hush, I need to get a stable job, I have a house, an attorny, a counseller for my oldest son, and will have daycare soon for both. And I need all these things complete so I have a much better chance at getting full custody. <P>I think I have offered her a more than far alternative to dragging this thru a long battle.. I offered to pay for a good daycare and to pay for all the court costs of the divorce if she will agree to allow me to have primary custody. I am seriously doubting she is even considering it even though she tells me she is. Right now I feel she is in a very vindictive state, and seems to want to do whatever she can to hurt me the most. Unfortunantly its not only I she is hurting, I can see the pain in my oldest sons eyes.