TR,<p>Good points. I am out of time but will respond more thorougly later.<p>Tom,<p>Thanks for your last post too I missed it. Regarding making yourself available to your children. You are right and I have always been available for them. I have a friend who is just the opposite. She does not get involved in her children's school work AT ALL. She says they need to do it, figure it out or whatever. She says that teaching them to be responsible. I soooo disagree with her point of view.<p>Take care,<p>ANNA