I know Plan B is to isolate us from each other. No Lbing, cause we don't talk, no doing anything together, plain and simple, he does his thing at his house, and I do my thing at our house. This is so hard.<p>I didn't understand what SNL meant by I want him out. I want him out of the house for very basic reasons. He is sitting and posting and he knows it is a trigger for me, and he said he knows and doesn't care. He can sit and post at his own place if he would of started moving out 2 weeks ago. I said why don't you come and sit in the living room with the kids and I and talk and watch TV with us. He said what are we gonna talk about, I said I don't know, interact with your kids and talk with them. <p>He seems to want to isolate himself in the computer room, sitting and typing on the computer, watching TV, yes he has a TV right next to the computer, and eating. I am so dissapointed that he regards the kids and I as not worthwhile to sit and talk to. This is not the man I married, this is a horrible person who seems to not give a crap about anything but himself. Doesn't he know this is hard for the kids, as well as myself. But he would rather sit on the posts then to interact with the boys.<p>I can see Wed. counseling with Steve Harley is going to be ugly. SNL told me a little while ago, nobody is going to tell him what to do. Nobody is going to say he has to do this, or that. He wants to be himself, and doesn't want anybody changing anything. I just wanted him to have some time with the boys in the living room, and do some quality talking with them. This is not the man I married, who loved family, who loved kids, who loved having a wife, who loved being a father. This is someone else taken over by Satan.<p>Well, bye for now.
