Happiness-
I just read your post. It struck a chord with me, because I have a male friend similar to yours. And, my divorce will be final in about a month or so.

Be true to yourself. Look out for #1 first and foremost. This could be Mr. Right for you. If it is then he'll understand your need to get through your divorce and taking it slow.

Llama Hhugs,
Llama