</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Nina too:
<strong>Thank you friends, once again. Means so much to me.

from LuvDatBaby:

"You do not seem to be the kind of person to slam your ex to them constantly - so there's hope that maybe your kids can have a decent relationship with your EH, if such a thing is possible."

I take great pains NOT to slam him to the kids, though I am human and the temptation is always there. I was the child of an unhappy marriage and subject to tirades from both parents about the other....no it is not a good thing to do, and I truly feel for you in your situation. I do not believe for a second your kids hate you....they are writing in anger, and you can't be angry at someone you don't care about.

Thanks again everyone for looking in on me, I need it and appreciate it so much. What would I do without this place?

Love and light,

Jacky</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thanks Jacky! God bless you AND your kidz!
Peace to all, and especially to you, Jacky.
Harold

Jacky,

Just wanted to say hey and that I was thinking of you tonight.

Love,

PP

(((((((((((Lynn)))))))))))

Thanks for dropping by...I know you have had troubles of your own there. I haven't been able to reply to it yet because I think it is so close to what I might expect to happen, it just freaks me out that they are so damned selfish.

Gee, a strange thing just happened. I had to call my parents to ask them to care for one of the kids tomorrow afternoon....and I actually FORGOT to tell them he has filed. Well, I have been hit by a flu bug, so Iwill put it down to that.

This is also odd...maybe it is this bug, but I just do not hurt anymore about this.

Nothing...hmmmmm.

It must be all those prayers and kind wishes, so thanks again for reading.

Hi Jacky, I've just caught up with your story, I'm so sorry. I know what your saying about wanting to be first to file, but it wasn't meant to be that way.

These WS are just insane.

You are such a great person, you have helped me and others through really tough times, please don't be down on yourself (although I know sometimes its just part of the process).

Your last post you sounded better except for the flu (which I think I'm getting along with everyone else in Sydney)

I know you will be OK, you are very strong. I hope the Lego and Barbie accessories stay sorted.

((((Jacky))))

SH

Hey Jacky,

Sometimes I'm afraid to post to you because our lives seem so similar. Then again, you are one of the finest people I know so what am I worried about????

I filed but go no satisfaction from it. I know I did the right thing, no ? but H can always throw it up to the kids that mommy is the one who ended the marriage. What a joke! At least you don't have to worry about that.

Found out this week that I need to have surgery. Same as yours, except they will do mine laproscopically(sp?) and I should be back to work in 3-4 weeks. I hope to wait a few more months. I'm gonna be so busy. too busy really for surgery.

School started back, son is playing fall baseball, both kids now have homework, I've decided to put the house up for sale, Court is next week, 2 business trips planned in next 6 weeks. My life is spinning out of control at the moment. At least my suitcase is unpacked and it only took 6 days to do it!!!!

Hey, I saw Mike while I was out in the midwest. He's doing better. Says hey! We have found a very happy compromise at just being friends. I'm very glad I visited. I hated the way things were before. All is well.

Have a great night, day, morning, afternoon, whatever it is in the Land of OZ......

Lynn

OMG,
I just saw this. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> I haven't been spending too much time in this forum. I have been mostly in the EN forum. But I just thought I would look in to see if you had anything and damn, i saw this...

i'm so sorry... i know it hurts, even though you wanted it. it just seems to add to the ovewhelming felling of rejection doesn't it???

i'm sorry sis... <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Seahorse, Lynn and Kim,

Thanks for looking in on me. I am coping, but yes, it hurts. Still, there is a sure knowledge in me that all cannot be GREAT in Lala Land if she can be so pushy as that to goad him into divorcing me. It won't be long before she is pushing him around in ways he will find really annoying.

Oh well, I spend way too much time dwelling on him. Especially since I don't even want the man anymore.

Love and light,

Jacky

Hi Jacquie...

Well, for me too it's been a while since I've been on this forum. But here I come today and see the update. Sorry about this "stage" you find yourself in now. It's very sad. I pray that the Love and Light you send to everyone finds it's way back to you in the form of Peace and Presence from Him, the source of Love and Light...

I'll look to chat with you sometime. I too have some updates.... got the job in DC, sold the duplex in a day and now, need to make some decisions about where to move - another duplex or two homes... it's not clear yet.

Take care my friend!

Peace & Presence,
Nicole

<small>[ August 14, 2002, 09:17 AM: Message edited by: OvrCs ]</small>

just checking in on you today cuz i am crazy today. so i thought i could think on someone else i care about and it would help me... so how the heck are you today!!!

Well, I might have missed it, but did you get your piano back??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Nina, my best IM friend, you have been laying low so much lately that I am getting a little worried for you. I guess you are merely gathering your resources, trying to plan your next move and contemplating what Christmas will be like when H brings OW to OZ.

I am always on, as you know, so let me know how you are doing, huh?

C++_guy