</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You weren't rude, Elspeth!
I can't speak for anyone else, but I enjoy an opposing opinion now and again..gives me a chance to point out why I'm so right and they are so wrong!
I am also among those who would have gotten a kick out of the whole incident if someone thought my H and I were illicit lovers. We probably would have rushed home to have great sex!
BW </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Well, perhaps not rude, but there wasn't a lot of point in my continuing an argument that was going nowhere, especially since the incident didn't involve me personally. I do have a tendency to lose sight of the forest for the trees in this way, as my counselor points out.

And my H and I would have gotten a laugh out of it, too, eventually, but I think our immediate response would have been the deer in the headlights look.