Hi, I am new to the forum and haven't looked around a whole lot so I am hoping this hasn't been discussed yet. Here is my problem, can anyone give me any advice/suggestions?<P>My husband and I have been married for a little over two months. He bought a house and moved into it about a year before we got married. A couple of months after he moved into the house his parents moved in with him (after his Dad retired), this was suppose to be "only temporary".<P>Well now that we are married and me and my 8 year old daugher (he also has a 15 year old son who lives with us) have moved in, they are still here! <P>They are driving me absolutely CRAZY! She treats me like I am 18 and just starting out in the world (I am 36 my husband is 35). They have no plans of moving out anytime soon, they are suppose to move out "eventually". I still haven't gotten a confirmed date from my husband. How long am I suppose to live with his parents? It isn't the money I know they can afford to live on their own. <P>I am miserable and don't know how much more I can take, can anyone give me any advice, I am desperate to hear from anyone who has been in a similar situations.<P>Thanks<BR>

You have live-in babysitters! <P>By agreement, my parents moved into my sister's family house so they would be there while both parents were at work. Well, they prefered traveling around...did a babysitting gig for a few months in Hawaii a couple times.<P>They finally settled into the babysitting role for sis and so there is alot of time for the parents to get away.<P>This may drive your in-laws out of the house, especially with a teenager and a soon-to-be-teen around. It may not happen that way, but hey, go to a movie without the kids.<P>'Course, they may get on swimmingly and then it's back to square one.<P><BR>Not making light of the situation but I have often wondered how my BIL handles the situation. What helps is that the my parents travel to the other siblings and dad (@ 77) really is not retired, totally.<BR>rrunrr<BR>