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Malc,
Sorry I didn't see this till you bumped this back up.

Yes, my H and I are div'd. He started it before he even moved out. I never suspected a thing. I did manage to drag it out for a year, but all it did was make WH angrier, and make him dig in deeper to get it through. I feel like God allowed this b/c the M we had was truly dead, and I deeply feel that He can (and will!) raise it up from the ashes of the dead one we were living in.

Second question: I'm sorry for this situation. I honestly don't know how I might feel in your situation. I can't even imagine it. Twice. The only thing I can offer you is to give it all up to the Lord. HE ALONE knows the deep hurts this is on you. HE ALONE can comfort you completely and heal you.

Please don't feel embarrassed or humiliated by what your WH does. It's HIS sin, he's in charge of his own life, and YOU CAN'T CONTROL HIM.

God Bless YOU.

Thank you so much Lup

So Lup you are still willing to reconcile? How is your ex WS responding to you now?

Yes I have a lot on my plate. Sometimes I feel I don't know where I'm going or coming, but there is something inside of me won't allow me to give up.

I don't know if God, is telling me something I know I need a prayer of clarity.

Thank you! You been so kind.
I'll be praying for all marriages.