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This came to me via email -

As Many of you know there is a chance our country may be going to war
> > soon....Many of you may or may not know that in scripture, the number 3
> > represents the Holy Trinity....Well, I was thinking of calling for a day
> > of prayer and fasting for our country...When you may ask....March 3, 03
> > In simple terms it would be 03-03-03. Wouldn't it be great for all the
> > Christians in the world or at least in our country to stop what they are
> > doing and pray on the same day...We could make 03-03-03 God's Day... I
> > mean He was there for all of us, that day on the cross...Faith is the
> > door way that all miracles come through, but prayer is the key that
> > unlocks the door....I hope you will pass this request on to all your
> > friends and family..In Christ. This came to me from friends in

Missouri -

> > Pass it on to your friends all over the USA.

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Lupo....I am from western kentucky.

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I just wanted to let you all know that I read all your remarks and you are all in my prayers. I have been praying for a restored marriage since my XH left me in Fe. 2001. Our divorce was final in Jan. 02. We continued to see and be intimate with each other several times a month from Feb. 01 to April 02. All of the times we hooked up were initiated by him. I saw it as a sign of hope. I found out 2 weeks ago that he got married in Nov. or Dec. 2002 to a woman who is 3 months pregnant with his child. I also found out this same woman had still born child by him in June 2002. It appears that he was indeed cheating on me while he was in the house with me and she is the reason why he left me. My questions is, can your (or should you) stand for a marriage when the ex-spouse is already re-married and expecting a child? My Mom said it looks like he married her out of guilt, because of the still born child and she was already pregnant for time number two before he acutally married her. I have'nt talked to him since Sept. 02, but I still ove him deperately. Our marriage was a very happy one (or so I thought) until he turned 35 and wend into a MLC and had an affair. Should I still have hope or should I move on? The problem is I still love him. Help if you can.

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Dear Sadinsa, I'm sorry to hear of the remarriage of your H. I would be asking the same questions, but the only answer I can personally give you, is that if your marriage was of God then this new one is a counterfit! I cannot tell you to stand for this marriage, but God can. If you believe in God, then please look to Him, He has all the answers, they may seem slow in coming sometimes, but that only helps us grow during the wait.
Anything can happen with this new marriage, if he was seeing you intimately while seeing her, then he has not yet come to terms with being committed. Give him over to God, let God do His awesome work, and you'll see results one way or another in His time. Nothing is impossible with God! I will pray that when your H finally learns what committment is, that it will be with you.
I will pray for you to truly know what God's will is for you in this situation. I know that in my own, no matter what, I will stand, because the Lord gave me clear direction in this!
May the Lord speak loud and clear to you, and may He bless you greatly!
Love in Christ, SW

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I have a prayer request. My W will be going to a women's retreat this weekend for our church. It will be the first one she's ben to in years. Her anxieties have been haunting her more and more as she gets closer to going.

Please pray that she doesn't change her mind, that she develops close friendships and that God touch her mightily. Thank you all.

Caj,

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I am from western kentucky</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Is that where you are now? I went to WKU and have family over there. Drop me an e-mail if you want sandc_mb@hotmail.com.

Sadinsa, You will be in my prayers too. Like Still said look to God and trust him.

Blessings on each of you.

S&C

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