I agree with Q. It seems as though she is trying to get your approval and that she wants you in her life. However, I just don't see how this can be a healthy relationship with her behavior as it is.

Don't play anymore. It's not worth it.
All it does is get you more upset. You don't need this nonsence, this is why you are divorced.
Block your phone and block your email.
It's time to shut down the nut. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Aly

bump and update for the curious....

So, she was supposed to have a weekend romp with her cyberlover over Easter weekend. Something happened and it all fell apart and now he's not communicating with her... and as she gets more and frantic, she's calling me more and more often. It's weird. And, now that I'm emotionally removed more... I can see her behavior for this guy she never met but was planning on being blindfolded and having sex with before she even sees him for the first time (! yeah, read that again if you must !) is exactly the same as her behavior the ENTIRE TIME we were trying to "reconcile"... except it was directed to her OM that she supposedly never contacted. Two months ago, that would have been me venting. Today, it's me passing it on so that if you see bizarre behavior in your FWSs, you'll go "Ah, it's right in line..."

Anyways, I sent her her tax refund money... and she left many messages of thanks. She left some teary "I love you" messages as well as "I'm having surgery soon and might die and love you forever" message. My favorite was the one that blamed me for somehow making her weekend thing fall apart.

Her surgery is to... errrr... build up her self-esteem.... I guess <scratches head>. A boob job. I guess I'm expected be her dutiful husband still and buoy her up through her cybersex travails and plastic surgery or something.

I'm totally unaffected by it. I listen to her VMs and then hit the delete button... unless she says something significant... which I transfer to a recorder.

Lyxa you must be having some fun reading and listening to your ex-ww's crazy stories, otherwise you would have already changed your phone number and closed out your e-mail address. Yet the opposite can't be said to be true for her. I guess she probably holds on to the crazy notion that you'll take her back one of these days if her life doesn't pan out the way she expected.

Yeah, you'd think so. For me, it's all just so validating. I would have changed all of that except I'm a key person on a number of contracts at work and changing tel #s right now... and email... well... would be bad and hard. At first, it wasn't amusing. But I have to be honest... it's gotten to be kind of comical.

Ah the sweet bliss of denial.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by hoping4best:
<strong>...and I "accidentally" cooked my lunch that I'm eating now....</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I know I am late on this, but that made me laugh!!