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Hello again, hurting.
Though it goes against the policy of openness and honesty, I advise not letting your wife know what you know and how you know it.
Stay in a strong Plan A, and don't allow your source of information (her writings or anything else) to dry up. You're fighting for your marriage, and they are your resources.
God bless and may He restore your marriage.
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my X had A with M nurse, A was while both was working. just talking first, then meeting each other outside city limits down dirt roads which they were finially caught & reported in police car. MOW was telling her H she was doing doubles, mine was suppose to be in court on his off days.
One dr was caught having sex with a M nurse when the cleaning lady came into a locked office. She was mad because he left his used condom in the office she had to clean. One nurse told me a dr grab her while she was walking down a hallway, the hospital had closed off during off hrs. he kiss her, she was upset, a christian & M. The Dr. said he was sorry, he was just so used to doing it with the other nurses hr thought she wouldnt mind.
X changed our cell phone company so I couldnt check the numbers, I didnt know that until I tried to call & ask why a bill was so high. we are now D, X lives with OW. he is now putting her thru school for the next 5 yrs. but cant pay court ordered medical & school on his son. when I moved to X hometown, they called the hospital "The Sperm Bank". Because of the local cops sleeping with the nurses".
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Belle,
Good to hear from you.
I definitely do not intend to divulge my source of information to her yet. I made copies of it and plan on giving to both my lawyer and our therapist. I do believe that this ultimately needs to come to light because she tells me verbally that there isn't anyone that she is thinking (even though she has admitted to an attraction to this Dr.)
She also tells me that she doesn't care if she ever gets with someone for a long time. There isn't anyone else right now. Not even thinking about anyone, blah, blah, blah. I believe she needs to be confronted with it because it definitely seems to be something that is driving her decisions right now.
She has been acting identical to what others on the boards have said:
Don't believe anything that you hear and only 50% of what you see.
God Bless
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