My wife has since given me a hard time to see our son. We are yet to sit down with our attorney's to discuss the proceedings and try to arrange some sort of amicable break-up of our marriage especially for our little boy. She has cancelled one proposed meeting already. Her sister still is in my home taking care of our son to whom she will not let me see. Why does she use our son in this, I will never understand, he is just a baby. My attorney says to be patient so I must. Her attorney had mentioned reconciliation but sometimes I don't know if I want that after finding out that she had been planning our break-up since the summertime. She let me put $13,000.00 into our home while apparently planning to leave me all along. What should I do?