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JL,
I know this is serious stuff, but you are RIGHT on. That is EXACTLY what would happen.
Xray, seriously, recoup your costs and move forward.
Sorry, collected all the cans I can for today and traffic has died down, so perhaps I can catch some z's.
AH-hahahahahahaha. I think I am going to wet myself I am laughing so hard.
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by XRay:
<strong> oaktown,
I am 27, WW is 25. Married three years.
When she graduated from college (which I helped pay for) she was able to get a very good job.
I have not finished college, am going to school part time while working full time.
TMCM,
I had not thought about the issues of the money her decision to have an A is costing me (really my dad, since I have no money to be paying for the lawyer).
I do think it would be fair for me to get those expenses back, either directly or by getting alimony until it is paid back.
Ray </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I suspect that the alimony you would be awarded in this case would not be a free ride for life, but money to help you finish college and get yourself a productive job. After all, that is the sort of alimony a lot of women get these days, if they get any at all. I think it would certainly be fair if she paid you that sort of alimony.
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