She said I could keep them. She has no intrest in having kids that dont want her. She said she wont be a part time mom. I cant be worried every day that she will go get the kids from school. She said she didnt want them. Just in case, they have my 800 number, and a calling card. She is so cold about it all. I am getting everything and I am crying. She is just, oh well. It would be best to sell the house and split. The kids could care less about the house. They want a fresh start also. This is just a control issue. She wont sign off on cruel and inhumane treatment. She wants me to make a list of things I want out of it and email it to her to agree or dissagree, then give it to the lawyer. It's almost eerie. The kids got up with smiles today. I know they dont realize the impact of no mom yet, but they have been through hell with her too. Too sad.

Maybe they do realize the impact of no mom, and that is why they are smiling. One full time Dad is better than a selfish mother and a distracted father.

If she wises up, you may be able to be happy with her. She hasn't wised up, and you can't be happy with her as you are. Your children will thank you.

A friend of mine just got divorced after 30 plus years of a bad marriage. Their two daughters blame her for sticking out the marriage. Of course, she did it so they would have a family. Some family... The marriage was abusive, and now one of the daughters is being abused. "Children live what they learn." It takes courage to face the truth, and you have.