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#771539 05/31/04 10:46 PM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">As you can see by my post count....I've been posting on this board for a long time. I've seen folks come and go and witnessed various attempts to control posting practices. All I can tell you....is it doesn't work. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Thank you Star for bringing back this most excellent post. I suppose one does need to be here a little while to know this. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Posts that attempt to direct the forum NEVER fly.

Let's move on and let this thread go in peace.

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<small>[ August 05, 2004, 06:46 PM: Message edited by: laura_lee ]</small>

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<small>[ August 05, 2004, 06:47 PM: Message edited by: laura_lee ]</small>

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by laura_lee:
I think calling someone "a troll" fits the definition of a disrespectful judgment.

I think calling someone "a narcissist" fits the definition of a disrespectful judgment.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Calling someone "a pimp" would therefore be disrespectful judgment too.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">There have been numerous occasions in my life in which I have "crossed the line" and made truly disrespectful judgments.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Would you consider that one of those times?

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<small>[ August 05, 2004, 06:47 PM: Message edited by: laura_lee ]</small>

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<small>[ August 05, 2004, 06:48 PM: Message edited by: laura_lee ]</small>

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So, Magnolia, can we "lock it"?
Seems it's not quite ready to be locked yet...

I have to wonder about this thread... how long do people have to beat dead horses... before it occurs to them... "Wow, the horse is dead! Why am I wearing myself out here?", she said as she beat the horse, long since dead. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

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<small>[ August 05, 2004, 06:49 PM: Message edited by: laura_lee ]</small>

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<small>[ August 05, 2004, 06:51 PM: Message edited by: laura_lee ]</small>

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Ever notice how sometimes people skip right over an apology... wanting BLOOD!! Focussing on the negative... needing to keep hitting the horse!!
I guess I don't quite get the above statement. Is this somehow a poke at me?
You asked for the thread to be locked and you seem to be the only one "needing to keep hitting the horse!!!
You have five (actually now seven & counting...) posts AFTER you asked for the thread to be locked. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

<small>[ June 01, 2004, 05:04 PM: Message edited by: Chris -CA123 ]</small>

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<small>[ August 05, 2004, 06:54 PM: Message edited by: laura_lee ]</small>

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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Do people keep a record of everything anyone has ever done to offend them... and review it, review it... so they've got something on that person... forEVA!!</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Personally, I don't. I just remember the ones who particularly insulted or hurt me. Fortunately, it doesn't happen very often...and that makes it easier to remember the few who have.

Your communication style, IMO, is very abrasive in many instances. And not very empathetic or compassionate if a subject conflicts with your code of living.

But....

I have seen small glimpses here and there of a change occurring...in you. I think you're trying, and seeking. That's a good thing. I don't like your new thread though. It kinda negates the good intentions I saw emerging. Oh well. Keep trying, I think you were on the right track with self-reflection. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

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Actually, the definition of hypocrisy is (from Merriam-Webster's, at www.m-w.com)

"a feigning to be what one is not or to believe what one does not; especially : the false assumption of an appearance of virtue or religion"

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