Hi Karona,

I just wanted to pop in and say thank you for your kind words a ways back.I am still reading and I guess there are more similarities to our situation beside adultery.You have 2 daughters near the age of mine,I take it you are a SAHM too? I am and love it.

Still reelings post too resounded within me.I may be going through that too someday.I know if my WH and I D that the homewrecker is bound to move here,if the sickening "relationship" lasts that long.They are both working on movies that are due to end in about 18 months or so.Then we shall see.I have no idea what state I'll be in by that time.I am taking it one day at a time.I KNOW that I have retained my dignity,integrity,honesty and that I am worthy.That was never in question for me
even when WH did what he did.WH has to do a lot of self reflection to figure out what he crossed the line.I know I wasn't perfect by any means but I was pretty close! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

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Hi again October,
Yes, I too am a SAHM.
I wasn't always.
I used to work, but we relocted a few years ago and at that time I began staying home. It has worked very well for me as my daughter needed me for quite awhile 2 years ago.

I saw the ages of your daughters, and wow are they close! Amazing isn't it. How lives can parallel.

You sound so stable, and that is wonderful.

It is sickening to think about what they are doing. I remember how it ate me up when X moved in with his woman.
But, funny how time helps. I don't really care about it today, and that has only been 6 months ago now.

I hope you, and your girls will be strong through whatever comes your way.

Thanks for popping in again.
K.