Buttercup - good for you ...Now change the kids right away - that way if he complains - well the kids will hopefully already be changed and on their way to their new school.. I am sure you are relieved....

That's exactly what i thought would happen.
And it shuts him down for his next complaint.
Pay now or pay later. You've probably saved yourself much future anguish.

Congrats.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by xpButtercup:
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The judge didn't seem to give much weight to test scores or the fact that our son is gifted/ADHD/possibly AS ... he saw that we had discussed the change, didn't agree, and THANK GOD gave me the power to do what's best for those kids.

YAY!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Congratulations!

And in this case what's good for you is what's good for the kids. Stop worrying about XH trying to portray you as something you are not (greedy and selfish) and deal with the facts of the situation. And that is, with the move you can't afford to keep them in a school that neither has the resources or is a financial disadvantage to you and your family.

Good Luck!