dearDD,<P>everyone has given such good advice. i especially like catnips idea on printing the thread for your H to read. maybe he will see how unfair he is being when he can read the pain you are in. you and your daughter must come first. she needs to see you be strong and give her a good example. she doesn't need to keep seeing her daddy hurt her mommy. <P>plan B, plan B... you know this already, now gather up the strength we know you have and put it into effect starting now. he has been doing this for too long and he needs to see that you will no longer let him walk all over you. <P>YOU deserve better. YOU are a wonderful person. YOU are special. YOU need to see these things and know that what you are going thru shouldn't be happening to anyone. be strong. know GOD loves YOU! <P>take care. you are in my prayers.<P><P>------------------<BR>happy_girl