[QUOTE]Originally posted by catnip:<BR>[B]lhl:<P>I was so relieved and delighted to read that your husband has no assets and is fresh out of school with nothing for the courts or the OW to extort from you two. This is excellent, excellent news and knowing that you will most definitely escape the insanity of family court under your special set of circumstances, makes me feel wonderful.<P> <BR> this is wheer things really suck because my hubby is getting a huge salery increase that thw OW found out about so she IMEDIATELY filed for a modification in support. The more our hubbys make the more the ow gets. It will never end they can file for a modification any time and in my state they automaticaaly do a review once every four years, so just as you are healing and putting it to rest it all gets drug up again. ug!

Hey Whatif,<BR>You're in PA, too, right? See that's exactly what I am upset about right now. H has a lead on a new job with a much higher salary, and we're afraid for him to even look into it, because if ow gets custody back and refiles for cs, he'd be slammed all over again at with high payments. It just sucks that we can't even try having him get a better job for fear that the cs system will steamroll us. As of right now, the only way we are relatively "safe" is for me to keep up my cs order and for h to stay at the same job making the same money. That way she is pretty much stuck with the lower amount. H's afraid to even get too much overtime. This is just ridiculous.<BR>-cd

[QUOTE]Originally posted by cdcollins:<BR>[B]Hey Whatif,<BR>You're in PA, too,<BR> yes in PA. Do you know the penalties for not reporting a chnage in income in PA to domestic relations are VERY hard. Fines, back support, contempt of a court order, possible jail. believe me we thought about not reporting new job but every four years they want updated info including taxes so we don't want to get "slapped" with back support and other things. We all rwady pay 1250/month. Wer both have to supply insurance ow and ws, 73% of non reimbured over 250. Our lawers told us we will most likely get partial custody but not shared so our support will ot go down. the only way to get ahead would be for hubby to work under the table but then you can't use that on any credit application. it is nuts, but I am falling for the oc hard and that takes away most of the sting.