butterfly kisses,<P>you are right. god is good. it is wonderful that your BIL and his family are moving here too! it will give you an instant feeling of home now. you won't feel alone in a new city. and i think it will be great to help your kids transition also. prayers that your H will one day be here with you too. either way, you are strong, and you have faith, and you will make it!!<P>happy_girl