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#802174 07/26/01 10:51 AM
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Bonnie,<BR> It almost sounds to me like you think its o.k. to use a oc by making a h do something he wants no part of, is this maybe a sick way to get revenge. Think about it? flowerseed

#802175 07/26/01 10:57 AM
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Flowerseed,<P>If you can muster the strength, please try to ignore her for she is not who she appears to be, regardless of how much she protests. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Take care,<BR>CoR [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]

#802176 07/27/01 12:19 AM
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I'll second COR's request: this is obviously a troll---just let her be.

#802177 07/27/01 12:47 AM
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Oh I see, I am a troll because I represent a different point of view. Whatever! Ignore all you want because it's exactly what you are trying to do about the other child and your husbands affair. <BR>Flowerseed - who cares if your husband doesn't WANT contact. Quite frankly, whi gives a rats [censored] WHAT he wants. He ought to do what's RIGHT!

#802178 07/26/01 01:03 PM
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by K:<BR><B>I'll second COR's request: this is obviously a troll---just let her be.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>K, <P>Not only an obvious troll, but a very <B>special</B> troll. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Take care,<BR>CoR<P><BR>

#802179 07/26/01 01:24 PM
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OK .. I am now convinced, she (bonniebb) is the OW. her posts have been inconsistant, hostile, and she attributes it to "confusion"...how about stupidity?. She needs confirmation of her actions, and we are not giving it to her. Look how she talks about the "H" and how the OW is not to blame. ...yes the victim the OW. the more she posts the more she is "coming Out". It is the pits, to be the OW to a married man, who has decided to make his Marriage work...at all costs..hate that dont you???, and even the pregnancy did not "make him" change his mind ( "fat Ba****), hate when that happens. Look you are preying on the wrong bunch of people here, you need to move on..<BR>get you story straight, then find another web site to go attack the wives at..Bye for now...

#802180 07/26/01 01:33 PM
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OH YEA, one more thing...BACK OFF FLOWERSEED...

#802181 07/26/01 01:40 PM
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MyCross, <P>You've just hit the tip of the iceburg. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>She is neither married nor with child. She WAS (key word) the other woman for five or six years to a man who doesn't have children, never got her pregnant and although he left his wife for a little while, still didn't committ to her. What happened after that I don't know, but seeing she's back on the boards with the same MO (ie: claiming to be a betrayed wife who suddenly thinks all other wives are horrible creatures, demanding all of us to have constant contact with other children), it may be safe to assume nothing good is happening in her (?) life. <P>Oh, and did I tell you she is my number one fan? [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Take care,<BR>CoR [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>

#802182 07/26/01 01:56 PM
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WWHHHAAAAAAAATTTTTTT?????<P>I said the OW isn't to blame? You've GOT to be kidding me. I'll offer a personal check in the amount of one thousand dollars if you show me where I said the OW isn't to blame. Very bizarre.<P>Sorry you have such a hard time accepting that not everyone in your little clique has the same opinion. I call them like I see them. <P>I have clearly struck a chord with what I have said because all you can do is resort to name calling and you can't stick to the issue.

#802183 07/26/01 08:10 PM
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Bonniebb:<BR><B>Flowerseed<BR>Your husband is the King [censored]!!! He chose to have sex, he chose to betray you, he chose to risk pregnancy, HE did this to you, NOT the OW, NOT the child. In your case I think it's best you and your husband stay far, far away from this child because it is clear what kind of people you are. How foolish you sound, calling her a [censored] and having anger about a child! Look at your husband Flowerseed,you have a real prize there! You are a sad example of people who ruin children.</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>Gee....who are we trashing here? I will set up paypal and you can send my money there....<BR>

#802184 07/26/01 08:38 PM
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Funny BW<P>that was pretty much what I read...Love that NOT the OW BUT the H to blame stuff....she is so transparent...<BR>But I dont take personal checks...esp from OW, cuz they are usually looking for money from someones husband...too bad...so sadd...time to GET your own husband...<P>AND BACK OFF FLOWERSEED...YOU (WHAT WAS THAT WORD...OH YEA..TROLL)

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