hey ja,
i'm glad to here your still hanging in there, and i checked the post u told me about...I was saddened to here that the date was a disaster...look u guys have 6 kids at home and you must be trying to keep this together from all angles and i know how fustrating it must be...i know your into religion but tell me..are you in to astrology...do you check the stars are you in tuned with the cosmic make up of you and your wife...I am into lots of things that are very much intertwined with my spirituality..check out AstroNet.com and run a compatibility guide or just look there in the middle of the day and test the way the horoscopes speak of your signs...u see I'm a Sagitarius and my wife Capricorn almost as opposite as one can match but it's the opposite attraction that bonds us so tight and there's alot i learned about her and myself by just keeping and open mind.....Ja, in marriage some one always has to humble themselves during conflict but you just have to be wise enuff to know when it's your turn. Look, stay strong and always let her know that marriage is work and not everyday is great but everyday is a learning lesson. You two are what your children need to survive the tribulations of this life and you 2 may just need some <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> space and time away from one another to truly see what you really have together...You can achieve anything if you truly want it...My Love and Prayers are with you BOTH.