I don't know why I have such a hard time talking with H about this mess! he made it! and I'm doing all the suffering. Well, this morning, I told him he needs to do something about his family and their father's day greetings and etc. re: C -- that if I do, I'm the bad person. He said he would talk to them but he thinks they don't mean any harm, just want to accept C as another family member. To me, he's member of OW family. I told him that I come first and that I feel it's disrespectful to me for them to give him accolades on his infidelity!