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I'm very curious why this card came to our home
=^^= since she knew he was married, she wanted to make sure you knew about her...why else a card to the house????
took the last A for me to wake up to THAT!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Nobody told me that at wife school!
=^^= Hahaha..."Wife School"...
But H let me think I've been doing a good job since then... I DO send racey letters, care packages, etc.
=^^= Excellent!
it is NOT likely that H managed to go visit that state without my knowing... military has a pretty short leash on him; but we can never be 100% certain, can we?
=^^= Chalk it up to a bizarre coincidence
OKAY, here's the UPDATE, after lots of emailing w/H:
He is sorry and scared of losing me. Good!
=^^= Terrified, even! Excellent
H recognizes he has a problem with not communicating his needs and unconsciencously building an unreasonable resentment
=^^= That's the first step in solving any problem
He wants to get counseling--yeah! Although he hasn't got one where he is, he's planning to talk with a minister there asap.
=^^= this will bring him more in touch with his spiritual side
There's 1.5 months left to his looooooong deployment.
=^^= ...just six more weeks. Countdown
I think he's on the right track.
=^^= Certainly sounds like it....you're both in my prayers, Jen
Tired,
=^^= I bet!
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