Oh man! Nio SO knows better than to joke about THAT subject now. Believe me he tried. My dh is a consummate joker, too. He could carry on pulling someone's leg for hours. Drives me friggin nuts!

If he pulls it again, walk away. I know it's hard, but snap your mouth shut and don't rise to his insensitivity. I only had to do it twice before dh got the picture. Also, if you guys have a very cathardic day and are able to talk about issues instead of getting hurt (it runs on his side, too - don't let him think he doesn't hurt from this), maybe you could both set some boundries on some of the issues that really bug the sh*t out of you. That joking thing sure would be on the top of my list.

I'm not gonna pretend I know your sitch, but I totally understand your pain. I don't know your dh, so I don't know what pushes his buttons - but when he pushes yours, YOU can always choose to be the nobler (is that a word?) person. Believe me, I know it's hard - I'm a born smarta$$, so biting my tongue sometimes means biting it off!

- Kimmy

Hi Kimmy,

Thank you so much. You are a very wise and witty girl. I am sure you can have a lot of friends with all that good humor you possess. I will follow your advise.

LMAO! Genia girly! Don't forget - no matter what happens WE WILL be okay!

Time heals all wounds - but it also wounds all heels!

I hope you're having a kickin' day. It just got all rainy/cloudy/nasty outside here......Guess I'm not going to take the kids to the beach after dinner...

- Kimmy

Hi Kimmy,

I live in the Southeast. It is sunny here. My husband does not work but is going to college. So I am stuck here at work. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" /> I am planning a vacation in July though. We are going to Jersey(Great Adventure) and New York City. At least a little fun will take my mind off things. You just hang on to your humor girlfriend because it is a goldmine indeed.

PPPHHHHHPPPPHHHHPPPPTTTT! That was me blowing a raspberry at your sunshine! But I had all sunny days for my bacation, so I guess I can cut God a little slack and let him water my spider lilies for me....

I got another secret...know when I KNEW I needed help? When I lost my sense of humor....lmao. I couldn't find "the funny" in anything anymore. I've got it back in spades now, doncha think?


hehehehe!

- Kimmy

LMAO! I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Glad you had a great time at the water park. Give us an update and we missed you on Friday.

((((HUGS))))

Hola Senora Genia! Hope you all wore your sun scream (screen)! Glad you had a great Friday...sure was quiet for awhile here!

- Kimmy

Hi Kimmy,

I wore my sunscreen. However I got really embarrased. On my first ride my bathing suit fell off my shoulder exposing me. It was a slide that dumped you in a pool of water emmersing you. When I came up the shoulder was down and i did not realize it at first. Luckily, It was just the Park Attendant and my daughter that noticed. I hope that never happens again. My daughter said she thinks the Male Park Attendant might have enjoyed it. Whatever. I don't like thinking about that. I am not the type of girl who enjoys exposing herself. It rained for the last hour and a half. The water got cold. I watched my two boys ride water rides in the rain for that last hour and a half. Brrrrrrrrrr. Too cold for me and my daughter. On the way home my daughter confided in me. Sad stuff. Her life was so hard. I wish I could have sheltered her. She was taken away from me when she was three.

<small>[ June 28, 2004, 10:54 AM: Message edited by: Genia ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> However I got really embarrased. On my first ride my bathing suit fell off my shoulder exposing me. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Don't you worry about it! LOL! That first back flip I did two weeks ago not only flipped my 'kini top up, it BROKE the plastic hooky thingy - my sil had to TIE the back closed! I was so jazzed about the dive, I didn't care...or maybe it's because once you nurse 3 kids you don't worry as much about it...of course it could be because Dr. Ladoux did such a good job I don't really care who sees 'em (LOL). Told that guy to make 'em perky and lift them to my chin, and by gum, he took it to heart!


</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> My daughter said she thinks the Male Park Attendant might have enjoyed it. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Why do you think he works there???? LOL! You won't ever see him again, so don't worry about it. Sometimes things happen, and we have a choice to laugh it off because of the "humaness" of it, or get our panties in a wad. Personally, I hate panties you have to dig out with a crowbar!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> On the way home my daughter confided in me. Sad stuff. Her life was so hard. I wish I could have sheltered her. She was taken away from me when she was three.</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Love her now. Be there for her now. It's all you can do. You can't change the past, but you have it in your power to make the future as bright as it can be.

- Kimmy

Hi Kimmie,

I bet you are cute. Don't worry I don't have a gay bone in my body. Just givin you a compliment. You got the nice boobs, long hair, bikini figure, belly ring, tattoo, and a sense of humor to top it off. My daughter would love to hang out with you. My daughter got the belly ring and I think it looks hot. Kimmie you crack me up. I feel better about the embarrasing moment now. Hey my daughter told me about something really neat. Did you know you can get permanent makeup now. It lasts 7 years. I am thinking about doing eyeliner. I cannot apply eyeliner to save my life.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> I bet you are cute. Don't worry I don't have a gay bone in my body. Just givin you a compliment. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">LMAO! Don't worry. No one has set the ole gaydar off yet.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> You got the nice boobs, long hair, bikini figure, belly ring, tattoo, and a sense of humor to top it off. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Yeah, but I also have the kangaroo pouch left by all 3 joeys I carried. While my top is kickin' my poor tum...I wear surf shorts with my 'kini top to hide it. We all have something we'd like to lipo, I'm sure! And the nice boobs - well, hell, I was due. I had HUGE boobs all through high school....gawd was I ever embarassed of them. Know my biggest nightmare? That they'd grow back! I'd be back at Dr. Ladoux's quicker that [censored] through a goose!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> My daughter would love to hang out with you. My daughter got the belly ring and I think it looks hot. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Send'er down. She and I can hang at the beach and make goo-goo eyes at the lifeguards. (hehehe)

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Kimmie you crack me up. I feel better about the embarrasing moment now. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Life's too short to be embarassed all the time. I mean really, it's not like that lifeguard was you dear great-uncle or anything! You'll never see him again.

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Did you know you can get permanent makeup now. It lasts 7 years. I am thinking about doing eyeliner. I cannot apply eyeliner to save my life. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Just make sure you go to an artist that you check out beforehand. This is a tattoo. It's gonna hurt, too. If you don't have a tat, I'd describe the sensation akin to being eletrocuted in one spot, over and over. Think about that on your eyelids....I don't think I'd be able to hold still long enough for that...but everyone's threshold for pain is different. I've seen some very nice work done, though.

- Kimmy

Oh, and stupid, un-classy me....

THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THE COMPLIMENTS! They are appreciated!

I think you ladies rock, too!

- Kimmy

Hi Kimmie,

I have the opposite problem. Always hated the fact that I am small on top. I used to wear an size A bra. I can finally wear a size B. Goes with the weight gain I guess. I used to be a 7/8. I now wear size 12. Sometimes a 10. Now if I could get rid of my belly without losing my boobs and [censored].

Shoot! I'd give my left big toe to have an [censored]. God said about me, "Give her boobs and no butt." And it was done! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

- Kimmy

You girls sound like you are having to much fun. Help me join the party I need it. I am glad that you guys sound so upbeat it is really refreshing to read. I have missed you all the past few days but am glad to be back. Hey i need to join in the summer fun. Although no bikini's yet need to work off at least 20 pounds of this baby fat.

later,

JT

Hi Kimmy,

I like your sense of humor but that does suck.

I'm here for a giggle if you need one, JT! We all need to find the "funny" sometimes.

- Kimmy

Hi JT2,

We all need to have as much fun as we can. Our WH put us through so much suffering. We deserve to have as much fun as we can. When our WH's see us having so much fun, they are gonna want in on it, don't you think. I plan on having as much fun as I can fit in this summer.

Genia -

Girl whats up? R U ok today?

Definition for Pop Rocks (candy) as Albany put it;

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I would have to take a guess and say I use as they would be to eat and then go about performing 1 particular act that they ever so like. </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Got it now? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />