Update.

I called the court system to see if anything can be done to protect husband's rights. As if he wants his rights protected? They gave me a number for legal aide. I called. Interesting conversation. I said I was calling to find out if they had free help to protect husband's rights concerning visitation with the baby. She asked if it were my baby. I said no. Then she acted like I was the OW. She said husband could have visitation with the baby but why would mother want OW (meaning Me) to have visitation with her baby. I said I am not the other woman. She said, I mean she is the one haveing the baby so she was first wasn't she. I said no, I am married to husband and have been for three years. He had an affair and they had a baby. She said well then you will have to fight about that with your husband. Have your husband call me and I will talk to him. I call husband. I give him the number. I tell him that they will help protect his rights. He says I can get my baby anytime I want. I say how, where will you see the baby. He says I will get the baby and bring it home. I remind him of a time in the past when she called our house and threatened him that he would never see the baby. He said oh, that is because she was trying to get me to break up with you. I say, no I remember the call and it was because you stood her up. He said still, she was trying to break us up. He said that is why I took her home to get her away from us. I say, I remember you telling me she asked if you might come live with her after she has the baby. He claims He never said that. Amnesia. We argue back and forth and then he changes the subject. He wants me to buy another car. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

<small>[ August 11, 2004, 04:07 PM: Message edited by: Genia ]</small>