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Hi Babygirl,
Duh!!!
I read your situation. Sounds like something I would do. I was tempted the other day to call OW and ask her how husband and her were planning to do visitation and to inform her that I was not gonna allow him at her house, and can we just call a truce for the baby's sake. To tell her that husband has been sweet with me lately, that he does not love her. For her to get over him. That he told me that if he breaks up with me he will look for somebody new.
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BG - I was so sad to read your update on SBF. How you doing?? My heart just breaks for you because you have worked so hard all this time. I know you have had enough - don't blame you at all. I just really thought your M would make it. It makes me so mad that your H continues to lie to you. Wish I could wack him on the head with that 2x4 for you.
Hang in there and keep praying. Your faith is strong and you are an incredible woman and friend. Please know that you are in my thoughts in prayers.
Maybe see you in the chat room tonight. I think we need to all freely vent in private.
Love you!!
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Genia - I only called her cuz I knew he was there or had been. Wish I had said something more productive but I got my point across & it pissed her off big time that I had her phone #. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> Ha Ha!!!!! Kris - Thanks for your prayers I do need them. I had hopes that it would all work in the end also but it takes two & more importantly it takes God being at the center of the M & the H being a man after God's own heart. My H is on a totally different mission right now & I want no part of it any longer. Hope to chat tonite too!
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Hi Babygirl,
May God watch over you and protect you. May God watch over my daughter and protect her. I still have not heard from her and do not know how to contact her. I don't think I will actually call OW, but the temptation is there. Things are so smooth and beautiful between husband and I right now, it is hard to imagine the problem we have. When other child is born I am sure our life will be disrupted. It is just so hard to beleive OW wants to destroy our beautiful relationship. If you seen us right now Babygirl you could not imagine we have a problem. The only time we ever have an argument is if I bring up OW. In three years before this happened we hardly ever had an argument.
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Genia,
Try to focus on your relationship w/ H, you are still in Plan A right? So Plan A him til he can't see straight, if talking about OC & OW causes a fight then don't bring it up, take that problem on when you have to, not now. Now is the time to re-connect & fill up his love bank as much as possible & let him fill yours, you will both need those deposits after OC arrives!
Thank you for the prayer, hope you hear from your D soon also.
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Hi Babygirl,
Thanks. Stay safe. Somebody told me I might report her missing. Everything is out of character for her. Like quiting college.
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