Hi Babygirl,

Thanks. I wish her Dad would do something. It is a five hour drive for me. I hope to go down soon.

OH GEN! HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm so sorry. I've been so wrapped up in my woes.........

Hugs, hugs and more hugs. Missing is missing. Police can find them - if they don't want to be found they tell the police, who inform friends and family as such. UG!

- Kimmy

Hi Kimmy,

I understand. I feel for you. I will pray for you as I am sure you will pray for my daughter. I am asking everybody to pray. God will take care of all of us I am sure. I am not sure why he lets us suffer but I am sure it is so we can be stronger people. My focus is on my daughter right now. If my husband makes the wrong decision concerning visitation, I will not hesitate to kick him out of my house. I am not really thinking of OC being due September 15th. I can't. All my focus is on finding my daughter. <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

Oh Genia!! You poor thing..oh how I wish we could all stop over to see you and just hug you.

Is your H being of any help/comfort to you at all in this situation w/your daughter? I hope so Genia!

Did her father ever wind up even seeing your daughter when she said she was coming? Did you and your daughter have any tension last time you saw her, or have you tried to direct her away from her 30 year old bf?

Also, has she ever been gone without telling you before, or for this long?

Yes, you should try to get her cell records- that sounds good.

I am so sorry Genia. This is aweful, but you are going to make it through all of this- and when you do, I just DON'T see H and OC in the mix of it. Please take care honey.

Hi Giov,

Is your H being of any help/comfort to you at all in this situation w/your daughter? I hope so Genia!

He is trying. He keeps telling me to be positive.

Did her father ever wind up even seeing your daughter when she said she was coming?


No, She never showed up or called back.

Did you and your daughter have any tension last time you saw her,

She was very upbeat.

or have you tried to direct her away from her 30 year old bf?

I did not know she had a boyfriend much less one 30 years old. She had a boyfriend once who was 16.

Also, has she ever been gone without telling you before, or for this long?

She has never ran away.

Yes, you should try to get her cell records- that sounds good.

I am working on it.

Thanks for your concern. I will wait on God about husband/OW/OC.

Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking of you and your daughter. Keep us posted.

BIG HUGS

Hi Albany,

My daughter called her Pappa. She is angry at me for looking for her. Maybe one day she will know how much I love her. Right now she is rebelling and trying her wings at the same time. She will have consequences I am sure for quitting College in the middle of a Semester. She says she is independent, yet she is dependent on a man. I just hope he loves her and treats her well. She called and we got her number thanks to caller ID, however she is lying about where she is. She did not think about the caller ID telling us what city she lives in. Well unless she could have bought the cell phone in one area and used it in another. I thought I was getting closer to her but I am not sure now. We think she is in the area where the cell phone is registered. We looked at the cell phone records for last month. There were a lot of calls placed to that city where the caller ID from her call came up. I guess she will miss us eventually and come around. I think the best thing for me to do is probably to give her space and not call her. I did call her after she talked to her Papa. She was very angry like I said that I tried to find her. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Congrats on finding her or her calling in--one day she will understand.