Sometimes I read the OW stores... and I am absolutely amazed over and over again.
Blackrio- you are first, very, very rude for sharing your stories of marriage with this MM and your little fantasy of how this is all okay in your book, etc. You have no idea how evil and narcasistic your behaviour is in real life or here. Do you think this is the forum where you share things that devastate others in similar situations. I respectfully ask you to keep your MM escapades on the board where it belongs. Read and learn- fine with me- but posting these irrelvant and hurtful stories to women who are freshly in so much pain-- sick.
Just remember how "accepting" and how "worldly" you wanted your life to be--- when YOU are the one sitting home without this incredibly selfish, sick and twisted piece of work you want to eternally "bond" with. Remember that the man you CHOOSE is the man you are GOING TO GET. How can a woman choose a man who is currently destroying his wife's life without her knowledge-- you accept this.. and my dear you can BET that when the truth comes out.... your tidy little fantasty will not run so smoothly. I have a strong feeling that your world will crash down-- and boy do you and this man have it coming. He has NO respect for anyone- including YOU. You feel the sun is shining on you NOW, because you are IN ON this sick torture of another human being. That same sun is going to give you cancer and kill you later.
So a wiccan or pagen does not have any sense of reality? No belief in the duty or caring of another human being- even those we dont know? From what you say, your alternative life style would also believe in seeing a woman and a baby drowing and you would watch from the shore,able to stop it-- yet you'd PUSH her and her CHILD's head under water ? It is the SAME scenario- though you see it as an analagy. Nope-- you are agreeing to and helping to drown 2 human beings. There is NO TWO WAYS ABOUT IT.
You can be completely nonconforming to society- in fact I don't find myself very comforming at all- or really traditonal. YET I CARE and FEEL pain for others- I would NEVER be able to agree to doing such cold and evil things in an effort to get what I want. OR at least since I grew up.
You say MM took his W on the rebound???? WTF do you think he is doing NOW to you??? Silly lady-- wake up! YOU HAVE 3 CHILDREN clung to YOU to teach them how to grow up and receive respect, honor and to LOVE others. You are screwing with these 3 children who already have to suffer the embrassment (and YES THEY WILL at some age) of the "WE ALL HAVE DIFFERENT DADDIES" crap. Can't you stop this vicious cycle of lies, pain, deceit and F'ed up living for THEIR sake????
"Your MM" as you call him--- is running around from woman to woman and you are ONLY his next stop. Wait till the liar, user and abuser gets caught or reveals this ... IF HE DOES AT ALL!
IF YOU READ HERE for more than 5 minutes - you'd HAVE LEARNED how much horrid pain you are inflicting - and how not to take advantage of the BS who has no idea that you are in her marriage and are sharing her husband's penis. Gross to accept that-- but SHE has no say so-
OOOOOOH let me stop. I told myself to leave this thread alone- but your wanton disregard for these ladies here in pain P*SSES me off to no end. In addition to their real life- you think YOU need to come and RUB SH*T in their face-- to let them hear JUST how sick and twisted the MM and OW are-- planning MARRIAGE while the wife and baby sit their as YOUR TARGETS????? (but its not about "them", right)..
Cheerful is bitter and hates the wives and children at issue here because she was dumped on her butt. How many women -- all with 95% the same stories of "promises" do you have to "LEARN" from... or the stories of how these MEN don't value YOU in the end cause you ultimately are WAY TOO AVAILABLE and easy and not the one who earns the respect when the MM's life falls apart?????
But no.. he's gona do right by YOU and YOUR baby, because UNLIKE his wife-- YOU ARE A TRUE catch and a respectable woman to build a life with. LAUGHABLE. Your friends at the other site should prove to you what your gloating little [censored] is in for. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />
If *I* am so obviously irritated by your salt in wound stories on this thread....and I'm recovering and happy w/H and back to normal.....without the anger and fury anymore..... imagine how others not in a good place are feeling about you here to remind them of their horrid pain.
<small>[ December 12, 2004, 09:31 AM: Message edited by: giovanna123 ]</small>
