<img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> So if I am reading this right, if the WS is having conversations w/ OW on a REGULAR basis, then they may be involved in an EA? That more than likely, they are talking about things other than the OC. I first had to go look for the meaning of a EA. Emotional Affair.
Which I understood it meets these
(1) Talking to the OP, about things they would talk about to your spouse.
(2) Looking forward, planning and arranging for times to talk/see the OP
(3) Hiding the fact you talk to the OP
(4) talking about intimate details about your M w/ the OP but not w/ BS

So this has me thinking and searching to see if I was meeting my WS emotional needs. I looked at a printed this
Emotional Questionaire

Which I think for all of us who are thinking or facing the fact that indeed the meaning of
"Fence sitting" is in reality our WS still in an emotional affair w/ OP.
Good Luck to all of you in reaching the truth!

I think the next topic should have reasearch on ending the EA and continueing rebuilding our M's.

Thanks KT & others for the insight! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
<img border="0" title="" alt="[Cool]" src="images/icons/cool.gif" /> Sunny D

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by crews:
<strong> She is pg with twins. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I usually just read here, but I want to say that you should look into getting support set up for your three kids, before she files for the twins. Whoever files first, usually gets the biggest chunk of the $$$. Protect your kids, no matter what happens.