Sons says he thinks my H is having cybersex with internet OW. He has been in the room when they correspond and it was implied.<P>YUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<P>This explains H's non existant sex life with me,he told me he wasnt having a PA.but to me this feels like it. I am so disgusted with this whole thing!!!!!!!!!<P>The longer this goes on the worse it gets, this not only effects me but son is also depressed. H is also addicted to porn.

Double yuck! He is carring on like this with his son in the room? Shows how deep into addiction he is.<BR> I don't know what to tell you but keep up in planA. Someone said in a post about internet affairs and how many lies are told. Be sure they could not have a relationship based on any form of honasty and trust and it is sure to come to an end.

{{{gettingbetter}}}<P>I'm so sorry to hear this. <P>I don't have any advice (I just found out I'm in the same boat) but I wanted to let you know that you're not alone and I know it hurts. --HBC

Hi "gettingbetter". I certainly hope you are wrong. But if you are right, then it's another form of an affair, and you'll need all the info on this site to deal with it.<P>By the way (BTW), you name "gettingbetter" is already used by someone who posts frequently here. That's why I clicked on it. It's a bit confusing. The only difference is that you don't use any capital letters. That's why the system accepted your name. You might want to consider changing it so that you can have your own unique identity.<BR>Just a thought.<P>SamH

Hi HBC,<P> I feel so alone,it seems like everyday I find something new out.<P>i believe H has 2 OW on internet. one of them is a serious EA. The other one I believe H is having cyber sex with.(Have done some snooping)<P>Today I saw he bought a greeting card for someone. It seems like a day does 'nt go by that he doesnt make contact with OW.<P>I feel hopeless about internet addiction. Is the problem the affair or the addiction to porn and cybersex?<P>What do you do for the addicted ,there are no treatment centers, like an alcoholic would have access to.<P>I almost pity him,and it is disgusting.He is so blind to the effect this has had on everyone,iam in counseling with Steve.Children need counseling too.H wrote in front of one of the children to cyber women. How insensitive!!!!!!!!!<P>Nothing dirty was said,but enough for child to be suspicious.gb