Dear Yuki, <BR> It is everybody's goal here to help each other. Granted, we are not counselors, not me anyway. But I just want to share with you that just because you go to a counselor doesn't mean that you are crazy or that others think you're crazy. Counselors help people who are hurting. And yes, my h sees a counselor once a week by himself and we see him together once a week. He has been a tremendous help to us. We are just the same as any people you would see walking down the street. The only difference is that we are seeking help to restore our once beautiful relationship and make it stronger than before. Thank God that counselors choose that vocation to help people like us. Maybe your pastor could refer you to a reliable one if you so choose.

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by WilliamJ:<BR><B>Hey Yuki,<P>I hope you are feeling better...<P>I have to say, I really was worried about you all afternoon at work today...<P>Have you seen my profile yet? I thought my sit was different...it isn't it is just as sick as any other...but you know what??? I am getting on...<P>Go check my thread on the D&D board...<P>Well I hope you feel better...<P>Bill<P></B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Yes I am feeling better. I just made 2 new threads. I'm glad to see that you're worried about me, you seem like a really nice person that I've calmed down quite a bit. I haven't seen your profile yet, but I'm going to check it out as soon as I hit the Sumbit button.<P>I don't know what you're talking about, but I will check out your thread. I don't know if I should even look at the rest of the posts on this thread because I think the feelings from earlier will come back. <P>Thank you for your concern and I do appreciate it! I'll go read your thread now, take care! <P><P>------------------<BR>ahhh....vg music has that calm effect....

WilliamJ,<P>Oh my goodness! I just read your profile! That is so sick!!!! I'm so sorry!!! I don't know what to say. I wish you were feeling better, OK? <P>hopeful now, <P>Thank you for responding to my post. I do appreciate it. <P>------------------<BR>ahhh....vg music has that calm effect....<p>[This message has been edited by yuki miaka (edited June 05, 2000).]

Yuki,<P>Now do you understand about us not being very different?<P>Yes my W destroyee my ego...but I am healing now...it has taken an [censored]-load of work the last 8 months but I'm doing the footwork.<P>I guess that is the point I was trying to get across ealier...in order to heal and change we have to do the foot work, and let God help us...<P>have a great night...you deserve it.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by WilliamJ:<BR><B>Yuki,<P>Now do you understand about us not being very different?<P>Yes my W destroyee my ego...but I am healing now...it has taken an [censored]-load of work the last 8 months but I'm doing the footwork.<P>I guess that is the point I was trying to get across ealier...in order to heal and change we have to do the foot work, and let God help us...<P>have a great night...you deserve it.<P>Bill<P></B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>OK, thanks! I will! <P><P>------------------<BR>ahhh....vg music has that calm effect....

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by yuki miaka:<BR><B> You called me a brat remember? I have nothing to say to you. Name-calling is unnecessary and is something that kids do. That means your behavior towards me is just as childish.<P>I noticed in your profile that you only had one post at the time. I'm wondering if you didn't sign up just to attack me.<BR></B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P><BR>Don't be paranoid now . I was just trying to knock some sense into you & break the help/hate/threat-to-leave cycle you've been going through. Most people here have been very patient & gentle with you. You're an adult, so act like one. You've probably worn down some people here already . Anyway, you seem to have calmed down (vg music? ) I seriously suggest that you read the MB concepts on this website. Applying most of them has recently saved my marriage from disaster. These concepts work for all types of marital problems, including yours. Believe it or not, I'm really interested to see your problem resolved.<BR>