Great thread!<P>Whodat - Just popping in to say Hi and thanks for that post! You've come a long, long way down an awfully hard road. It's so good to hear from you!<P>Lori

Tired Lady:<P>I don't know if it was so much "colorful," as it was a no-holds barred truth you just weren't prepared to hear at the time. Despite what Sheba said, I've never been, and doubtfully never will be, the master of tact and diplomacy. Just because someone isn't ready for the truth doesn't mean I won't tell it, even though my methods may sometimes be questionable. I can see the sorrow and resignation in your posts of late, and that actually makes me sad. I hope we ALL learn from these experiences.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Resentment is like taking poison and waiting for the other person to die

Good discussions here.<P>ChangedMan said what I feel, I will not give up. When I think of where my Wis right NOW (I called her at work this morning to say "I love you", OM answered) I get that "down" feeling. But when she said "Thank you" to my statement, it brought me back up a little.<P>RRunRR<BR>

Homer,<P>Hey how ya doing? <BR>Now i am going to drop my $.10 in here. <BR>YES IT IS A FOG! She does not know that now. Later in years she will. The only way she will is if you PLAN A!!!!!! <P>I was very much in love with OM. I am still getting over him. But my H is reated A+ on plan a right now. So that is now showing me it was a FOG!!!!!!!!!!<P>I am now realizing that I didnt love OM. It was just the needs. My H is doing that again now. So why would I want OM? He was a loser anyway. <BR>So, you wont be able to convince her that it is a fog. Because she is probably feeling love for him right now. BUt this is where you come in and PLAN AAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!<P>Then she will realoze at that time it was a fog.<BR>Sorry for the typos. I take 100mg of trazodone at night. I should be in the bed.LOL!<P>Prayers Homer<BR>Renee<P>------------------<BR>We can do all things through Christ which strengthens us. Repeat that 5 times a day. I promise you success!