Terri,<BR>I am sorry, I didn't mean to upset or offend you in anyway, shape or form. I also didn't mean to suggest that you were in anyway pathetic or on a some sort of quest, if that is how you understood me. I didn't go back and read my response but I can't rule out the possibility that I may have come across that way. If so, please accept my sincere apologies.<P>I sometimes get very long winded and finger happy with these keys and I go on and on and loose my initial point to where I sound like an nut sometimes.<P>I was merely only suggesting what I felt a possible perseption from others could be. I didn't mean to imply that it would be an accurate one. It was just more of an idea so that if anyone did perceive it that way that you would be prepared.<P>Anyway I will not get into another long and drawn out reply here but please accept my apologies and I wish you only the best in life.<P>Genie29

Guess this thread is my "diary," since I am the only one posting on it! <P>This is the first chance I've had to post here since my last update. So ... quick note: Guess whose number was on my caller ID Wednesday? And no, I haven't returned his call.<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR>I can see clearly now,<BR>the rain is gone ...

Genie,<P>No offense taken. I just wanted to address the points you had brought up. I think it would be possible for a Plan B letter to be "pathetic" if it wasn't written from a position of strength, and it is a good point to bring up.<P>This Plan B is for me. Well, Plan B is always supposed to be for the betrayed - for protection of emotional health and to regain control. I am in a good place now emotionally, and I am strong. I will be revising my Plan B letter from some suggestions I received on the forum and off, and will probably repost it sometime early next week.<P>I hope things are still going well for you, Genie!<P>------------------<BR>terri<BR>I can see clearly now,<BR>the rain is gone ...