Thank you, arcacia...what was the post about? I am really happy I could be of help. After I got so much here, I really want to be able to give something back.<P>Update on this whole saga:<P>My good friends who encouraged me to talk to H again, thank you, I took your advise.<P>I had to repeat and clarify several times...he didn't get it easily...but he was willing to listen and try to "get a clue". That is truly progress. <P>He really couldn't have done anything anyway, but I do think he will be more careful to consider the impact of his decisions on my schedule in the future. All in all we learned something.<P>He did try to call the boarder, (after I found the #), but they were closed already, so I have to take care of it, tomorrow. Maybe he will, we will see.<P>I truly appreciate all the support and advise I got here the last few days. It really meant so much to me. <P>LOVE YOU ALL....GROUP HUG!!!