Thanks again CB!<P>My H (aka Pinnochio)"SAYS" they're broke up to his sister, which he knows she'll tell me. But I knew diff and found proof. Told my SIL the news and she's just very disappointed in her Bro, that's an understatement, she's kind of disgusted with him by now.<P>My H did nothing when the banshee was harassing me, he knew she was and simply said "She's angry", WELL DUH! So anger is a good reason to harass someone at home struggling w/cancer. She said horrid things and on a recorded phone answering machine, pretty stupid of her. What a Baffoon, eh?<P>I had never seen, talk to or done anything to her, she just wanted my H to leave me and would call all hours of the night from bars, phone booths etc, non-stop (about 14 msgs a night) just going off on me. By my counselor's advice, I never picked up, just let her spew into the answering machine.<P>It's okay now tho, she and I went to court and she got slapped with an anti-harassment order on her. But what a piece of work she is. She told the judge she did harass me because "somebody HAD to do something", brains of a goldfish this one. The judge just looked at her in disbelief and told her one more call and she's going to jail. <P>What a wonderful way to live your life, never thought I'd be involved in such seedie and ugly stuff. <P>Thanks for looking out for them, really like to hear what's up with them. I'm so happy someone from here has seen her too, I just couldn't believe my eyes when I saw her, still can't believe it. <P>Be well, CB.<P>Prayers,<BR>Jo<p>[This message has been edited by Resilient (edited October 15, 2000).]