Dear Mickey,<BR>I try to believe you in fact I do , but that doesn't help me today. <BR>Today I spent a short time with my H but he was ice cold and seemed very satisfied with his life with OW. Last time he said he was sorry for what he did was long ago July 16th , few days after he throw me and YD from our house and August 1st a tried suicide. After that we nonstop quarrel. Last two months he moved OW into our house (see my new topic: more bad things) and every day he seems nmore and more happy. He tells everyone how the things are finally settlèed down, they are living like spouses, they are so much in love and nothing can't disturb them. Of course, they have few housemades who do the work, cleaning, cooking... ODmakes them no problems, and YD he didn't take from that time (4 weekends now). You know she is 10 years younger, attractive, less educated, doesn't do anything but makes him lough, a lot of sex, a lot of going out. They have nothing to care about. He bought her a new car, and probably more other things. And at the end even immoral women finally decide to calm down, have kids and H.<BR>Only he does not mention divorce. Loook at my letter to Bonnet and you'll see and understand why I can wait till May 12th next year when he must choose and decide what he wants.<BR>But he doesn't want to have contacts with me (like your H) and I try to avoid any contact with him, when wee see each other I am polite, always well dressed and with a smile, I do not beg him for anything more, but therea are no changes, I can't understand this I only see there is no hope and for me life without him is only survving.<P>Thanks for trying to help, I am happy because of you but the only hope is that you count one year after they start living together (2 months now) and then I can maybe see the hope.<BR>Please stay in contact