Belle,<P>You sound good. Still trying to find that line. Well, it's good to hear he's not a gold-digger. Inheritances on both sides, huh? My great-uncle was the only one with money (about 5 million) and it all went to charity. He couldn't stand my dad.<P>It seems pretty common that men freak out when facing "settling down" and being a father. My h started his As when my little one was 1, but he had his eye on this woman before then. And it seems to have taken such a crisis for him to appreciate his wonderful kids. He didn't seem to notice them before!<BR>