<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by DazedConfused:
<strong>Josie,<p>I know it is hard to be in a relationship where your partner is not meeting your SF.....trust me, my wife has froze me out for months before (currently we are on two months, no lovin,)<p>But if you really care about him, try to be patient. Having an affair to have your sexual needs met will make you feel dirty and used.....trust me IT IS NOT THE ANSWER! My wife has cheated on me twice........not for sex.....but because she was abused as a child and thinks I am too good for her.<p>Having an affair (believe me I understand your frustration) is something you will regret the rest of your life. I found my wife in her closet, curled up in a ball, bawling about what a scum she has become.....don't do that to yourself.<p>I definitely think his weight and possible depression (have you checked that out) has affected his testosterone level.......if his hormone is down, his sex drive will be to. We all have stress, but the male body reacts differently to it in different people. He needs to see a doctor. To have a beautiful girlfriend in her early 20's saying she wants more and for him to not want it, tells me there is a biological problem. Can you get him to a doctor, maybe a nutritionist?</strong><hr></blockquote><p>
I would like to take him to the doctor about his weight problem and his bad diet...he doesn't work out so the weight keeps piling up....<p>i love him with all my heart....its just that i get frustrate....he went from a guy who saw me for 10min and the next 5min. we were in bed....is do difficult for me...<p>I can't talk about sex with anyone ...he'll freak out...i can't ask for advice cause he'll freak out...<p>Last night I asked him, "Am I doing something wrong, do i lack in something" and he tells me, "Jo you are deffantly not the problem"....then ask, did they tell u that in your little message board...that your the problem, well you're not...<p>Then what is? it could be depression....our life haven't been plesent...we've had some trouble with money due to the fact he got into business with a man who didn't appricate him.....<p>
I LOVE HIM SO MUCH.....
