Starpony,<P>Thanks for asking. I am doing well. It has been just over a year since I have been divorced, and my ex has been married to the OW almost that long. It has been almost 1 year since I have seen him, and that was at a party. He let another Christmas go by (2 in a row) without contacting the kids.<P>I have never left this site - just check in occasionally. I still have a lot to learn. It is hard to read this stuff on one hand, but growth is painful, and I do continue to learn by coming here. <P>I feel so very much for you. At least in my case, I have had resolution of the triangle. I have had you in my prayers since I saw your post. I know how awful it is to have the limbo keep going on and on.<P>You have done great with what you have to work with, Starpony. Keep to Plan B. One way or another, something that will lead to resolution will come of it, I am sure. The best thing is how Plan B gave you a good break form all this. You sound good and strong. It is AOK to be unsure how this will all end up. No one ever knows in any situation how it will end. Your head and heart are growing stronger, though, and you will need to depend on both to get you through the future, whatever that may be. I'm pulling for ya!<P>God bless, friend!<P>Desiree<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>
