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#912060 05/08/01 11:20 AM
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To belldandy - of course my wife is wrong also for consorting with such a scumbag. I can forgive her because I know she is sick. She was trying to escape the pain of our loss and still does not know how to face her grief. <P>OM, on the other hand, is an arrogant, self centered hypocrit who saw an opportunity to bolster his ego via a mourning mother. Evil incarnate is too kind a description.<P>WAT

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Terrified,<P>I really hate to rain on your parade, hon, but I don't think that the OW will care about you and your daughter, even if she knows that you exist. It seems a strange thing to contemplate. Usually one thinks, "Oh if the perpetrator sees the victim, that gives them a name and a face, and they will feel guilt." I sometimes think that this technique works better on serial killers and rapists than OP.<P>Please don't waste your time trying to soften her heart to your situation. I say this because I've been there myself, and it didn't help my situation one bit. I don't want you to get let down by someone you owe absolutely nothing to.<P>belld

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