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When I was nine years old, I was sexually abused by a young woman ... what this did to me, among other things, is give me a kind of warped idea of sexuality... but with a confusing twist, since she was female... so, that said...<P>To answer your question: I want to yell out NO, NO, NO... but in reality, I guess that yes, I've felt some "stirrings" over the years, but I always attributed them to the abuse, not a true sexual longing...<P>

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My H's OW called herself bisexual and supposedly told my H that I had always been attracted to her, she was a woman, she could tell, and she'd never had a husband and wife attracted to her at the same time. Honestly the thought never crossed my mind as she's 28 years younger than me and more than twice as big as me. <P>My H's fantasy is actually two men and me, which is a lot better fantasy if you ask me...

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