sheba<BR>I'm sorry. Cash is not in the right realm. If I could do something about that I wouldn't be borrowing from my son while H went throwing his money away on the bimbo.<BR>OOPS My nasties are coming out!

Praying for you tomorrow!<P>You have your head on straight!<P>------------------<BR>Faith, Hope, Love Remain,<BR>but the greatest of these is Love.<BR>1 Corinthians 13:13

Sheba --- You've been so helpful to me in the past (when my name was deceiver) that I now feel so bad about what you are going through right now. I wish that I had so words of widsom for you but I don't. I just want you to know that I am thinking about you and praying that before the divorce is final your H comes to his senses and realize what a wonderful person he is losing by proceeding with this awful process.<P>As far as the sunburn goes, I know it's bad for the skin but it still makes me sick that I spend more time in the sun than my H does and he is still darker. I've been told by many people that I look younger than I am so I'm not sure if the wrinkling of my skin will be a too terrible thing or not.<P>Keep your chin up, hopefully things will get better soon. I'll be praying and thinking about you all day on Monday. God bless.<BR>

Thanks for the prayers and encouragement FHL and Hopeful!! <P>And WS if what you said was "nasties" than I wonder what mine would be called!!! <P>Allright, you folks are going to think I'm nuts.........<P>I made myself really busy yesterday so that I would be exhausted and get a good night's sleep.........so, of course, I wake up at 4AM and can't go back to sleep!!!!!<P>I took the plunge and put new color on my hair!!!! I don't know about any of you, but I have had so much grey pop out since all of this that I couldn't take it.....I'm sitting here at 4:45 with this goop on my head and pray that it doesn't come out orange or red!!!<P>I have auburn hair naturally and just hope that this comes out like it looks on the box!!!!<P>Gee, ya think I have a few butterflies, or what?????<P>Well, timer will be going off soon.....<P>Be prepared to hear hysterics if I look like Bozo!!!!!

OOps ---- No offense to Deb's Bozo!!!

Yeah - I know - I'm talking to myself!!<P>That's OK because you'll all read it when you get up.<P>Colored my hair and then I CUT it!!!!<P>WOW!!!!!<P>I'm ready with the slip and the dress, makeup's just so!!!! AND I pulled out the old wonderbra!!!!!!<P>H - Look Out, baby----Here I come!!!!!<P>Wish me Luck!!!!!<p>[This message has been edited by Sheba (edited August 16, 1999).]

Sheba,<P>You are too funny. Up at 4 in the morning getting a new hair style? I guess at least you are thinking about yourself! That's good.<P>I hope thinks go good (as good as the can) today. If it gets hard, just remember you have us all here thinking about you and praying for you! <P>------------------<BR>Shoni<P><BR>

Sheba,<BR> Just wanted to let you know we are all thinking of you and praying for you today.<BR> Let us know when you get back. OK<BR>Oh btw, I've started making some pop bottle dolls for christmas, they are made w 2 ltr. bottles, and if you 1/2 fill them with sand or cat litter, unused PLEASE, they make a great doorstop thats cute too.<P>------------------<BR>Just call me - Deb<BR>------------------------<BR>The only day I can do anything about is today, yesterday is gone, tomorrow is not yet mine.<P>

Sheba,<P>Just wanted to let you know I am praying for you today. Go girl in your wonderbra...Did you decide to wear panties?<P>How did you lose 4 lbs. in one week? I guess the situation is enough to do that, huh?<P>We're here for you!<P>My situation is the same. Trying to work out details of divorce decree. I'm okay though. My neighbor saw H and OW at grocery store. My H couldn't look at my neighbor AND he walked away from OW. Whatever. Atleast he didn't put his arm around her or something. <P>Good luck today. Let us know how it goes.<P>Pam

Sheba<BR>How did the color turn out? You should see the gray I got since Jan!!!! I'm auburn too so need to know what color you used.<BR>Way to go girl. You are having fun in a lousy situation. <BR>I'm thinking of you this morning. Keep that spirit.<BR>BTW I usually bite my tongue and end the post before you see the real nasties. I can just tell when they are coming!!!!<P>My computer worked for a day and now it's playing with me again!

Sheba,<P>Just wanted to check in on you and see how things went? Did you blow him away (w/how good you looked ), I'm betting you did. Half the battle is knowing you look good and we all know you knew . <P>Please let us know how you're doing....<P>T2W

Sheba,<P>I know that right now it seems hard but you will get through this. A divorce is not the end of the world. Look at Carol and Glenn's example. This might give you and your H the opportunity if you guys go about it the right way to become better friends.<P>I am the betrayed and I am divorced and I also have a better relationship with my ex-H. Over the years he has made alot of changes in his life and has become a better person and has set alot of goals for himself, some that he has acheived and some that he has yet to conquer. In alot of ways I wished I had met the man I know today because I know a marriage with him now would have worked.<P>But in our own situation the hurt and pain and memories were so severe that I am not able to allow myself to reconcile with my ex-H. Being the friends that we are is good enough for me.<P>If changes occur within the both of you and you are able to overcome this maybe you can start paving a new and improved road for the both of you.<P>If not stay strong for yourself and your children. Things will improve with time.<P>Good Luck to you.<P>Q<P>------------------<BR>

Just wanted to thank all who posted after my last one on this thread..<BR>To all - Thanks for your prayers and thoughts!!!<P>Shoni - yeah, I was pumped!!! Needed something different so at 4 in am - why not color and cut your own hair?? It was perfectly rational to me at the time! Of course, if it had comeout badly then I would have not been very rational!!! LOL<P><BR>Deb - I'm glad to hear about the pop dolls and they sound adorable. Keep focused!!!! We love ya!!<P>PR - YAY Wonderbra - NAY Panties!!!<BR>4 lbs - no problem, situation lately is a wonderful diet!! Helps that I haven't gone grocery shopping lately, too!!<BR>How long does the divorce process take where you live?<P>WS - Hi and the color came out really good. It's a little lighter than I wanted but it's a good shade for summer. I used Belle Color #56 (I think) - Medium Auburn....It's the one that the "Little House on the Prairie' girl uses - you know : Melissa something!!<P>Anyway, I'll try the Dark Auburn next!<BR>PS - I like nasties!!!!!<P>T2W - His eyes got as wide as they could considering he is sick - He just said that I looked really nice.<P>Querida - Thanks for the hope - sometimes I forget why I'm going through all of this and being reminded by comments like yours is certainly very comforting and definitely my goal.<P>