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Re: Should I have sex with WH or not?
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Just had to jump on the bandwagon here.<P>Are you opposed to one night stands (i.e. raw sex with no emotional attachment)? Could you deal if this is what your sex with your H was like? Would you feel used? If he got up and left afterwards would you feel hurt or happy?<P>Just something to consider. Just because you have sex, doesn't mean it's making love and it doesn't mean it will be like you remember. I don't know what your sex was like before, but just consider this aspect. I don't want you to get more hurt emotionally.<P>Everyone else has pretty much added the other things I wanted to say...
Re: Should I have sex with WH or not?
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Some more thoughts..<P>If you were a man married to a woman that regularly said no to you and made you feel rejected all the time-got involved in an A with another Woman, then the affair ended-would you want to go back to that marriage with no sex?<P>I am playing out our scenario here.<P>Plan A is about making changes, and yes you can be in plan A when your WS lives with OW. I got this from Steve Harley <BR>in a counselling session.<P>I feel that I am a very emotionally strong person. I can handle the fact that he goes home to her-for awhile.<P>If I am initiating it because I want to, and feel closer to him afterwards, then this is my answer. I know he's feeling closer to me too.<P>Trust me though, this is not going to be any permanent thing. I will be in plan B within the next 2 months.<BR>
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