Come on Sad and Alone...<P>We will keep posting and keep posting and keep posting. Please let us know you are okay. <BR>

sadandalone ~~~~ Please, PLEASE, talk to us!!!!!!!!<P>

Hi,<P>I just wanted to let all of you know that I just got off the phone with S&A. She is was very distraught and felt lost. We were able to talk and calm her down enough so that she can get some rest. She is going to the doctor tomorrow so that she can get some help. <P>What can we do here at MB? Give S&A our continued support. She spoke highly of all here and appreciates the responses. She is aware that her H is acting as a very different person and would like to get her old H's personality back. I was able to get a small laugh from her which was good. <P>I will be in contact with her tomorrow. Please continue to post your support here. She will read them. She is currently located out of the USA area and will be posting at odd hours due to the time difference. <P>I told S&A that we will be here to give her the strength she needs to get through her ordeal. She is also going to put her personal/family support group together, though that will take some time. <P>We are also going to notify Tempest of our actions. Any more suggestions are as always appreciated. Please keep this young woman in our hearts and prayers. This site knows what she is going through and has one of the best support groups around. I am proud to be associated with you all. <P>To S&A: We are here for you. <P>Take Care,<BR>L.<P>

You there Sad? <P>Lord, I pray that you comfort Sand And Alone...fill her with your peace, comfort her, please have someone to be there for her. IJN, Amen

Orchid,<P>Since we talked on the phone Sad has stated she is not willing to go on. You have her number, can you pls call to make sure she is okay? Please post so we know.<P>Jo

Thank you so very much for letting us know Orchid. Thank you also for being there for her. What a lovely lady you are! <P>Thank you Sad and Alone to reaching out to someone and hanging in there.

Orchid, thank you SO much for that post. I am much happier now and might actually be able to get some sleep.<P>Sad, I cannot tell you how glad I am that you have decided to stay with us. Just hearing that brightens my day and gives me hope for tomorrow.<P>Good luck, girl. Get some sleep. Post here if things get bad again. We are here for you.

On it now. Will get back to you all. <P>L

Thanks for the update, Orchid. You are a god-send... esp. with all you're going through... what a beautiful person you are!!<P>I add my prayer to Raskal's:<P>Lord, give sadandalone peace tonight... the kind of peace that passes understanding. Hold her in the palm of your hand... and guide her to the doctor tomorrow.<P>In Jesus' Name<BR>Amen<p>[This message has been edited by Nyneve (edited July 08, 2001).]

I've just popped in here, and read this thread. I have shivers just seeing the pain, and then witnessing the caring and the love shown.<P>You are all earth angels.<P>And all will be well, in spite of the hell right now.<P>God Bless you all.

SadandAlone - as you can see you are not alone and you have awesome support here. You are going through hell right now, plain and simple, but you will find the strength to get through that hell and come out of it a stronger person, with so much to look forward to and so much to contribute to this world. <P>God Bless You. You are in my prayers.

SAA<P>Give your troubles to GOD. It's going to be OK. I know it hurts, but it has to be for a reason. I know it doesn't look like right now, but your reward will be doubled in the end.<P>God Bless.<P>SiS<BR>

Dear sweet S&A,<BR>Please read all our posts we are all here to help you through this. I to had a miscarriage and know the emptiness that you feel. It takes time to heal and god is with you and will protect you. Please stay with us and keep posting. I will say a special prayer just for you tonight as I say for everyone on MB everynight. And please go to the Doctor in the morning. Will be looking for your post to see how you made out at the doctors.<P>Love and godspeed<BR>N

S&A do not hesitate to call your family for help. You'll be surprised what a big help they can be. Arrange for a plane and travel to see them or let someone of them come to you.<BR>My daughter is in a similar situation and she was a shame to talk to us, her family, at the beginning...She was surprised with our understanding and support for her no matter what will happen in a future. She feel much more prepared now to take what ever future can bring...She also heard even worse words from her man and it's still not finished for them...Talk to your family immediately.<BR>

SadandAlone<P>You are such a special person. Things will get better for you. Come to talk to us anytime.<P>Hugs and prayers to you.<BR>Maezy

SadandAlone<BR>You are such a special person! Things will get better for you, I promise.<BR>Keep posting here.We are here for you.<P>Hugs and prayers to you.<P>Maezy

SadandAlone,<P>Right now take it one minute at a time. Breath slowly slowly<P>If you are here please send us even the slightest post so that we know you are ok. <P>Z<P>------------------<BR>He loves not who does not show love.<BR>----William Shakespeare

Sadandalone,<P>I've been out of town for a few days. I've followed your story. Please, dear heart, stay with us. Something is horribly wrong with your husband, please don't let what is wrong with him destroy you!<P>You are worth so much more than that. Just reading your words, I can tell you are a caring, loving person, while your husband has become something very different.<P>Ok, I'll say it. What he has done to you is evil. Pure and simple. No one should be so unfeeling toward someone else. You didn't cause this, you didn't deserve this, it is not your fault.<P>Stay with us. Let the pain have a chance to fade away. I know you would have brought your child up to be the same kind of loving and caring person that you are. Would he or she want you to give up? I don't think so. He or she wants you to make it through this and to bring into this world some of his or her brothers and sisters. You still have a future, SAL, it may be very different from what you have thought, but you do.<P>You have been in my prayers since I read your first post, and you will continue to be. There are people who care about you. You are not as alone as you might think. Please remember that.<P>Ish<BR>naib@mac.com if you want

SadandAlone---<P>Please know that a whole lot of people are praying for you right now...our spirits are with you...<P>I know that God is holding you in His hand right now....in our darkest hours He is with us...carrying us...<P>Give Him time to work miracles in your life...He will...Believe...<P>Cali

saa:<P>You are in our thoughts and prayers.<P>God bless,<BR>STL