Well my fantasy is that it will fade. I do know that the OW has said she is going to go to school now, and before this she was a Welfare mom for years. She never attempted to improve herself in any way before my H.<P>So I'm hoping things are waining for them in the sex dept and now she is trying to show him she is more than what she really is. It's so interesting, how the OW is doing things that are very similar to what I am. She touts loving horses now, I have always ridden and horses are my thing. She is going to go to tech school, I am an engineer. <P>I guess time will tell ....<P>Jo

Orchid,<P>Thank you for calling me and talking me thru some things. You truly are an Angel. We're very blessed to have you here.<P>Below is my work addy. I'm having probs with my alternative email addy and I don't feel apprehensive giving out my work addy. A few here already know me personally and giving it out is not a concern knowing my work is a very security minded environment

Jo,<BR>We recently filed a temporary restraining order on behalf of our daughter against 2 sisters that were on her softball team. The prior to the temp order, the parents had first refused to meet with us, then the dad confronted me alone in the stands--not cool dude! We went to court for the permanent order. At that point the parents swore they could keep their girls under control...and they too complained to US about being embarrassed & gossiped about! Too bad their little angels threatened to beat the **** out of my daughter while they were talking to the coach...<P>Anyway, I want to tell you that if these girls, or their friends, do or say one dang thing to my daughter again...we'll be back in court for the permanent restraining order. I don't see your situation as being much different. The OW violated the harassment order...what part of "against the law" does she not get?<P>Since you are so unempathetic ...I'll cry for the OW for you. Booo Hoooo. There. She brought this on herself...and the consequences you have sought are lawful. She'd get plenty of time to rest and medical care in the pokey.<P>"All that is needed for evil to overtake the world is for good people to do nothing."<P>------------------<BR>Lor<BR>"Whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, gracious...think about these things." Phil 4:8