Usually a post with a specific question or topic gets responses. I've been here almost 3 years, and a couple months ago, I posted a thread and got only 1 response--I guess even my "clique" wasn't interested .<P>Actually, I don't think clique is accurate...I tend to bond with people who arrived at the same time, or were at the same stage or with similar timelines & crises as mine.<P>And new people arrive all the time...<P>I'll post if I think I can help, but somedays I don't have time to look at even both Recovery & GQII, much less read every thread.<P>We are all here because of our own pain--whether it is in the past or current. Sometimes we can't think of a thing to say. Sometimes a post is too complex or painful.<P>If you give feedback or thanks to the poeple who do reply, and reply to others, you'll find you slide into feeling more like you "know" others here.<P>Don't give up, there are wonderful people here.