I'm one of the old timers too... and I've been away for a while. I noticed the same thing trueheart said. Everything looks spiffier, but everyone seems more wrapped up in what they are feeling and less about sharing with others.<P>I'm so glad that everyone is discussing this, coz that means that we want to go back to how it used to be (wasn't there a song like that?)<P>Or maybe people are adversarial here coz they need to get some aggressiveness out here, so that they won't LoveBust... I dunno...