My wife wanted to talk tonight, said she wants to quit and can't go on like this, she has agreed to counseling but said her reasoning for going isn't to save the marriage, she said we are going in circles and maybe counseling can help. I hope she is right, I would have oreferred to wait until she was more positive but i can't see that happening anytime soon. I'm afraid her heart won't be in the sessions and then she will say"I tried and it didn't work." I love my wife and she has changed so much since the om, she tells me her feelings for me and our marriage change before the om, and minimalizes the effects it has had us. I pray things go well, I miss her.
Thanks for the replies, they really help. With her not wanting to talk to me about our situation causes me to keep alot bottled up inside. MB is very helpful, I will willing accept any advice or similar experiences and hopefully learn from them