ah ok you got the e-mail.<p>Did you check the draft or sent folders for saved mail or/and the trashcan to see if there is any mail not deleted yet? Also you can check the addresses see if he has her's in there....<p>Dont forget to empty the trashcan to get rid of your own message.<p>
nikko remember tho, you still havent found anything incriminating yet but another e-mail account which could have been made up to 90 days ago and forgotten. Dont jumpt he gun K?<p>-HI<p>hey have an idea which might be sneaky. send me an e-mail from that account to lkjh123@go.com I'll send a new mail to that account by "mistake" and you can see if he check or deletes it.<p>Or you can do that yourself from some bogus e-mail account. create some fake excite.com e-mail and e-mail your H's go.com account, something stupid like "hi bob just writing to check up on you. -Joe"<p>see if it still is in there later.<p>boy this is getting sneaky. <p>-HI<p>[ February 20, 2002: Message edited by: HangingIn ]</p>

found the old cookies i deleted this morning-he was all over these sites yesterday. i havent recieved the email to myself yet-i will check that in a while-i feel so drained-need some sleep before kids get home-i keep thinking about v-day now and how he came home that nite at 11:50 from work. i cant help wondering now if i really am this gullable?????? i guess it was convenient that we celebrated the nite before. he will or better yet is supposed to be home around 6 tonight-i hope i can calm down before he gets here. gonna take a nap now-hopefully talk to you later. thank you so much. i have no one else to talk to about this-no friends or fam. know-except his boss who is our best friend. but a guy and i cant confide in him-you know all the possible ea stuff. im so lonely sometimes. anyway thankget back to you later. bye

Hope things turn out ok Nikko.
We'll all be here for you!<p>-HI

Nikko,<p>Take a deep breath. It may be something. It may be nothing. Have you considered stepping back and just watching for a while? I had this same thing happen to me back in September. I was in heavy Plan A for 5 months, thinking my H had stopped and he had not. He just became a little sneakier. He was using his lap top at home to chat when I was gone at work at night. He had fallen in love with another woman online. He had never met her but was heavy into a long distance EA with her.<p>I was a lot more successful with confronting the issue by not revealing my sources or how I obtained my information that he was still cheating. I was able to find out more information that I needed to know. I know exactly how you are feeling right now.<p>Just my advice, take it or leave it, but hold your cards close to your chest. Gather more evidence so that you can reveal the true nature of his relationship with OP. Are you using any PC recording software? It was the best $70 I ever spent....<p>Bluebird

hangin- i just emailed you at that acct. thanks. i have a few other things to check-be back in awhile-bye

okiedoke I sent an e-mail from that bogus account I made to his. <p>basically said hi havent heard from you in a while I think this is your e-mail address sorry if it isnt... <p>So just let it sit there. if it is deleted (or I get a reply) i guess that means he is checking it.<p>I feel like I should be playing mission impossible music in the background.<p>*remember* nikko, if he is being true and he finds you snooping it maybe a big lb. <p>anyhow..Have a day!<p>-HI<p>*this message will self destruct<p>[ February 20, 2002: Message edited by: HangingIn ]</p>